Set the image used for social network sharing?

Oh, perhaps because we customized the in the theme, to include some “meta” properties.

But if we didn’t do that, then posts without an image would not get any when shared.

What would be ideal is to have the option to set a default image for all forum pages (or even individual categories!) in some other tab of theme than “Customize CSS” and then override that meta if a topic has an image.