Hi,
I’ll try not to be dramatic.
It is totally possible to run WordPress & Discourse on the same physical server through the use of a simple reverse proxy application e.g. nginx in front of discourse
I’ve set up over a dozen installs that way for various projects & clients.
Process is very simple:
- Install discourse on an adequately sized VPS
- Configure discourse to use external Nginx Reverse Proxy
- Install WordPress as usual and making another server block in nginx config to handle wordpress traffic.
- Profit.
Although I do offer such installs for fairly reasonable rates but You’re always welcome to DIY and I’ll be happy to help you along the adventures if You get stuck.