Should the install guide tell people to run apt update & apt upgrade first?

I doubt it.

That’s not a bad idea. It might just point to a couple such guides that someone else is already maintaining.

EDIT: And finding one that has just 5 things to do and not 25 looks like it’ll be a challenge.

I think mostly this:

  • configure apt for automatic upgrades and reboots
  • installed fail2ban (though without password access for ssh, I’m not sure how necessary it is)
  • see that ssh does not allow password logins (this is much easier now that Digital Ocean has a proper shell console that doesn’t require a password)