To edit these settings you can edit the app.yml
cd /var/discourse
nano containers/app.yml
Around the line 48 you should have this:
## How many concurrent web requests are supported? Depends on memory and CPU cores.
## will be set automatically by bootstrap based on detected CPUs, or you can override
UNICORN_WORKERS: 8
I’m not an expert in this area but you might want to check the lines ~30 to reduce the number:
## Set db_shared_buffers to a max of 25% of the total memory.
## will be set automatically by bootstrap based on detected RAM, or you can override
db_shared_buffers: "2048MB"
Save the file (CTRL+X then Y usually), then you indeed have to rebuild discourse to use the new settings, using:
./launcher rebuild app
Your forum will be offline around 10 minutes during the process