That’s my whole point in this topic, in favor of the health of a community, does that just mean to sacrifice users’ privacy and their right to remove? If an admin declines to remove, a user basically has no choice?
The reason that I am asking here, is our admin refer this issue to the general discourse policy and its default settings, and refused to raise this limit. He said that most discourse sites uses the same policy and default settings. If I have a problem, take it to them.