You should just need to use the web.ssl template (and not the web.letsencrypt.ssl template). The sample yml has the following lines:
## Uncomment these two lines if you wish to add Lets Encrypt (https)
#- "templates/web.ssl.template.yml"
#- "templates/web.letsencrypt.ssl.template.yml"
Just uncomment the first one:
## Uncomment these two lines if you wish to add Lets Encrypt (https)
- "templates/web.ssl.template.yml"
#- "templates/web.letsencrypt.ssl.template.yml"
That will set up nginx for SSL using /shared/ssl/ssl.crt and /shared/ssl/ssl.key. With that, you just need to make sure you have a valid certificate and key at those paths. Assuming you’ve installed to the standard location, the path to that directory on the host system is /var/discourse/shared/standalone/ssl/.