New instructions for SSO setup? "enable discourse connect" setting is missing

copying my reply here so that this thread will persist for anyone who runs into this in the future

yes it’s the hosted cloud version, on a sandbox, which I assume means basic.

Haven’t done much other work on the site, so sounds like it will be easier to create a new sandbox on a higher level plan.

And, yes, lots of other SSO and Discourse Settings do show up. I was able to get everything configured except this one setting.