I think if it the order has to be explained in bullet points and each tab has a different set of bullet points that explains that specific tab’s order, it may be too complicated.
I can appreciate that it might be annoying to clear out a bunch of likes before getting to the meaningful stuff. Maybe likes shouldn’t appear in that section if they are mostly useless then? Or isn’t there already a setting to control how your like notifications are received? if someone is being drowned in likes maybe that’s the solution?