Proposed changes to discourse-setup because Digital Ocean blocks outbound smtp

Yeah, they say it depends on your context. If you come from a 3rd world country IP, you get all sorts of problems like that. At OVH I can’t even get a server.

It’s like credit, DO will analyze all the info they have on you, and if you check enough boxes, you are a potential spammer / abuser and gets a different config.

That’s why me, @brunoedigital and @nixie are affected but not you guys from the north.