Yeah I think this is important to keep in mind! as frustrating or embarrassing as it can be to try and get something wrong, it’s better than if no one tries at all. We’re not working on anything that’s going to explode, there aren’t too many cases where getting something wrong is going to cause irreparable damage.
With a little patience we’ll figure it out and learn something along the way… in my experience 99% of the people that use Discourse and have come here to discuss it understand this.