(Oops, it’s /var/lib/docker)
My /var/discourse/shared/standalone folder is 19.3GB (in postgres_data, uploads, and backups subfolders), and my /var/lib/docker/overlay2 folder is 12.6GB.
So the /var/discourse folder has my actual forum data. And the /var/lib/docker folder would have the docker images (and the actual Discourse software?)