# Discouragement of the First-Time Discourse Admin

**URL:** https://meta.discourse.org/t/discouragement-of-the-first-time-discourse-admin/391379
**Category:** Community Building
**Created:** [15 בדצמבר,‏ 2025,‏ 6:28pm UTC](https://meta.discourse.org/t/discouragement-of-the-first-time-discourse-admin/391379 "2025-12-15T18:28:33Z")
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### Author: ![RGJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/meta/user_avatar/meta.discourse.org/rgj/32/523185_2.png) [@RGJ](https://meta.discourse.org/u/RGJ)
#### Post date: [19 בדצמבר,‏ 2025,‏ 8:26am UTC](https://meta.discourse.org/t/discouragement-of-the-first-time-discourse-admin/391379/31 "2025-12-19T08:26:26Z")

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> [@stephtara](#):
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> So are you saying, basically, that nobody without a strong background in computer security should be self-hosting Discourse?

I’m not saying that self-hosting Discourse requires deep expertise in computer security as such. But when I read something like this:

> [@Topic List Previews (TLP)](https://meta.discourse.org/t/topic-list-previews-tlp/209973/709):
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> Yes, but for all that I need to crawl onto the server, which I haven’t yet done, as a friendly geek did the initial install for me. Within my capabilities but I need to unearth my access codes and find my way in first…

that _does_ raise a red flag for me.

Not because there’s anything wrong with getting help, but because it suggests a setup where ongoing access and responsibility depend on one specific person’s availability. In that situation, a hosted solution is often a better fit. You still wouldn’t need to log into the server yourself, but you’d have a reliable party to fall back on, rather than relying on goodwill, spare time, or on that one person being available when something goes wrong. In much the same way that you can’t rely on Facebook as a long-term guarantee, we’ve seen entire communities fail simply because the one person holding the keys stopped answering the phone.

In practice, it’s precisely at the moment something breaks and that person becomes unavailable that people end up coming to us (or to Jay, or to CDCK), though perhaps I’m just preaching to my own choir here.

But I might be deviating from the actual subject here. I think @philh says it better than I could ever have

> [@philh](#):
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> As a former colleague used to say “Hey Phil, don’t let perfect be the enemy of the good” in an effort to pull me out of the weeds and remind me of the big picture. Stop making it so complicated, keep it simple and just get on with it.

Baby steps. It doesn’t have to be perfect immediately. Actually, nobody knows what “perfect” is for your specific community. You and your community will figure it out along the way. And if you get hindered by the lack of knowledge about how to do something, or maybe even about what possibilities there are, meta is the perfect place to ask, and I am not aware of any other product with such a great community that people can rely on.

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