i love bookmarks and use often. i only ever use (in order of frequency):
- none needed
- later today
- custom date and time - specific to the bookmark subject
rather than rely on reminders (i find them a bit annoying personally), i just periodically go review my existing bookmarks and remove any that i don’t need or want anymore. i would probably use the reminders more if i had reasons to, like for reminding me of meetings or deadlines related to posts about projects or solutions for example, but i don’t generally have that with my forum, nor on Meta.