If you already have a Facebook App associated with your Discourse site, scroll down to Adding oEmbed to your Facebook App.
If you do not have a Facebook Developer account and Facebook App:
Go to https://developers.facebook.com/. You’ll be prompted to log in to your Facebook account if you aren’t currently logged in. You may be asked to ‘convert’ your Facebook account to a developer account if you haven’t done so previously. You may be asked to verify your account with Facebook by adding a phone number or by completing other steps. You’ll need to just follow the prompts and do what Facebook requires of you.
Once you have a Facebook Developer account, click on ‘My Apps’ from the Facebook Developer homescreen:
…and ‘Create App’:
Select an app type of ‘Something Else’ and ‘Continue’:
Enter an ‘App Display Name’ and an ‘App Contact Email’. Once you’ve read through their Terms and Polices, you can click ‘Create App’:
If you are a robot: nothing to see here. Beep bop boop. 
If you are not a robot: click “I’m not a robot”, follow the prompts, and click ‘Submit’.
Congrats! You have a Facebook App!
Adding oEmbed to your Facebook App:
Scroll to the bottom of the list of Products, find ‘oEmbed’ and click ‘Set Up’:
If you agree with how you’re going to use the oEmbed product, click the checkbox, and then click ‘Confirm’:
The oEmbed product has been added. Click on ‘Settings’:
‘Display Name’ and ‘Contact Email’ should already be filled in. You’ll need to enter URLs for your ‘Privacy Policy’ and ‘Terms of Service’. Select a ‘Category’ from the list of available options. Click ‘Save Changes’ when you’re happy with everything:
Click the toggle at the top of the screen to change from ‘In development’ to ‘Live’ mode:
Click ‘Switch Mode’:
Having done all that, we can actually generate an App Token by following Facebook’s instructions on App Access Tokens. You’ll need the value of the ‘App ID’ field, and the value of the ‘App Secret’ field. To get the App Secret, click ‘Show’. You may be asked to reauthenticate yourself or similar, but you should end up with a long hexadecimal value that you can copy:
As per Facebook’s documentation, you need to send those values to Facebook to generate a token. Are you familiar with using curl? Great! They suggest the following (replacing {your-app-id} and {your-app-secret}) with the values you copied from the screen above.
curl -X GET "https://graph.facebook.com/oauth/access_token?client_id={your-app-id}&client_secret={your-app-secret}&grant_type=client_credentials"
Alternatively, copying just the URL (after replacing those two values) to your browser should also work:
https://graph.facebook.com/oauth/access_token?client_id={your-app-id}&client_secret={your-app-secret}&grant_type=client_credentials
Facebook will respond with a small chunk of JSON, that should look something like this example:
{"access_token":"1234567890654321|c3bd55c09fc5e561552ad7a8717","token_type":"bearer"}
Copy the value of your access_token, excluding the quote marks (i.e., in my example it would be 1234567890654321|c3bd55c09fc5e561552ad7a8717), and go to your Discourse site’s Settings. Find the site setting called facebook_app_access_token in the Onebox setting. Paste the ‘access_token’ value in to this field:
Click the 
…and you’re done!
Pasting a URL such as https://www.instagram.com/p/CIRhYzFM7Lu/ in to a post on your site should result in a lovely onebox, just like this one:
waiting for my second app to be…
), aber der Hauptunterschied besteht darin, dass oEmbed nach der Genehmigung Ihrer App durch die App-Überprüfung angefordert werden muss.
