Also, you might want to disable emails (both “Send me an email when someone messages me” and “Send me an email when someone quotes me, replies to my post, mentions my @username, or invites me to a topic”) for all the staged users with email matching a group’s incoming email. I might make this automatic but for now a manual workaround is enough.
I think I understand now. I email to sales@remobjects.com which is an alias to something@talk.remobjects.com. The fix seems to work for the last one directly, but not the first one, which is the incoming address for the group.