Let’s not cover up the basic problem your site have. We the entire community will try to help you. In an average, as far I have seen discourse only takes about 8 seconds to load the entire site.
I would like to get answers to a few questions I ask you below. So that, I or any other good member in this community can help you.
- Which hosting provider you are with?
- Which plan?
- How many GB’s of RAM?
- Have you followed the discourse supported docker install. (If the answer for this question is no, please try to install using the supported Install method)