I can't seem to figure out how to get Discourse to handle all logging in (Wordpress)

[simon]

@CrackMasterK

Is there a way to make it so if you want to make an account via wordpress or discourse it’s handled by Discourse alone?

I read this wrong the first time I looked at your question. You can use DiscourseConnect for this, but you need to configure WordPress to be the DiscourseConnect client. Details about how to set it up are here: Configure single sign-on (SSO) with WP Discourse and DiscourseConnect (there’s a helpful video at the top of the topic.)