First thanks for the response and sorry for the delay in getting back to you. Yes, I see your point RE: the bitnami install and this being the discourse site.
But I think this question is actually not related to that aspect of things, so let me rephrase and ask a few more things:
Is it possible to have discourse point the main domain, and not a subdomain? Can I have discourse run on mycommunity.com rather than forum.mycommunity.com?
Here is my site, you an see the domain here, thepros.community…as you can see it’s simply a white page.
What’s odd is my DNS configuration is very vanilla, when I’ve done this type of work before usually the IP just forwards to the domain without issue…
You are self-hosting so you don’t need the Discourse-hosted instructions. I just included it to show there can be problems using apex domains and you should understand this significant con.
It’s not actually directly relevant to your current issue. But if you are interested in understanding this issue then this blog is good to read