Is there a way to make MP’s actually really private ? Where an admin can not access other members MP’s unless there’re invited with a flagging or a tag ?

Yes, check Discourse Encrypt (for Private Messages)

MP's tatsächlich privat machen

Falco (Falco) 3. Dezember 2020 um 15:12 2

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