Is there a way to make MP’s actually really private ? Where an admin can not access other members MP’s unless there’re invited with a flagging or a tag ?

Yes, check Discourse Encrypt (for Private Messages)

Rendi i MP effettivamente privati

Falco (Falco) 3 Dicembre 2020, 3:12pm 2

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