Discourse socketed: Nginx in front of discourse: no IP adresses

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i tried to add proxy_set_header X-Real-IP $remote_addr; to my config, (after proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-Proto https;) but that doesn’t help either.

About set_real_ip_from: i see that in the socketed template the unix template is already handled (https://meta.discourse.org/t/how-do-i-make-the-top-30-ips-report-work-with-socketed-container/33924/):

so that means that i am not passing the IPs correctly?