Topics where user mentioned and hasn’t responded after being mentioned

I don’t know even a bit of SQL… but would it be possible to have a query that shows me topics where I’ve been mentioned… but haven’t responded after being mentioned (I imagine this part is tricky, if it’s even possible)?

topics where user mentioned and hasn’t responded after being mentioned

-- [params]
-- user_id :user

WITH mentions AS (
    SELECT target_topic_id, target_post_id, created_at
    FROM user_actions
    WHERE action_type = 7 -- mentions
    AND user_id = :user
), replies AS (
    SELECT topic_id, MAX(created_at) created_at
    FROM posts
    WHERE user_id = :user
    AND deleted_at IS NULL
    AND post_type IN (1, 4) -- regular OR whisper
    GROUP BY topic_id
)
SELECT DATE(m.created_at) mentionned_at, target_post_id post_id
FROM mentions m
LEFT JOIN replies r ON r.topic_id = m.target_topic_id
JOIN topics t ON t.id = m.target_topic_id
WHERE m.created_at > COALESCE(r.created_at, '1900-01-01')
AND t.deleted_at IS NULL
AND NOT t.archived
AND NOT t.closed
ORDER BY m.created_at DESC