Seeking help for discourse installation

What do you see with ps auxfc ? I see this:

USER       PID %CPU %MEM    VSZ   RSS TTY      STAT START   TIME COMMAND
root         2  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00 kthreadd
root         4  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kworker/0:0H
root         6  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ mm_percpu_wq
root         7  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   5:35  \_ ksoftirqd/0
root         8  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    Jan26  40:56  \_ rcu_sched
root         9  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    Jan26   0:00  \_ rcu_bh
root        10  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ migration/0
root        11  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:15  \_ watchdog/0
root        12  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ cpuhp/0
root        13  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ kdevtmpfs
root        14  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ netns
root        15  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ rcu_tasks_kthre
root        16  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ kauditd
root        17  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:17  \_ khungtaskd
root        18  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ oom_reaper
root        19  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ writeback
root        20  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ kcompactd0
root        21  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        SN   Jan26   0:00  \_ ksmd
root        23  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ crypto
root        24  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kintegrityd
root        25  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kblockd
root        26  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ata_sff
root        27  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ md
root        28  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ edac-poller
root        29  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ devfreq_wq
root        30  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ watchdogd
root        35  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:30  \_ kswapd0
root        36  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kworker/u3:0
root        37  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ ecryptfs-kthrea
root        79  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kthrotld
root        80  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ acpi_thermal_pm
root        81  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_eh_0
root        82  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_tmf_0
root        83  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_eh_1
root        84  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_tmf_1
root        90  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ipv6_addrconf
root        99  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ kstrp
root       116  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ charger_manager
root       157  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_eh_2
root       158  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ scsi_tmf_2
root       160  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   2:22  \_ kworker/0:1H
root       280  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ raid5wq
root       335  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        S    Jan26   2:37  \_ jbd2/sda1-8
root       336  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ext4-rsv-conver
root       435  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ iscsi_eh
root       456  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ib-comp-wq
root       457  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ib_mcast
root       458  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ ib_nl_sa_wq
root       464  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I<   Jan26   0:00  \_ rdma_cm
root     30402  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    Mar10   1:46  \_ kworker/0:0
root      1003  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    Mar14   0:00  \_ kworker/0:1
root     31060  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    17:36   0:02  \_ kworker/u2:2
root      1678  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    18:18   0:00  \_ kworker/u2:0
root      3636  0.0  0.0      0     0 ?        I    18:45   0:00  \_ kworker/u2:1
root         1  0.0  0.3 159760  6656 ?        Ss   Jan26   3:24 systemd
root       416  0.0  1.0 102400 21668 ?        S<s  Jan26  15:29 systemd-journal
root       432  0.0  0.1  43096  2684 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:20 systemd-udevd
root       440  0.0  0.0  97712   888 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00 lvmetad
systemd+   617  0.0  0.0 141788   768 ?        Ssl  Jan26   0:23 systemd-timesyn
systemd+   768  0.0  0.1  70620  3548 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:21 systemd-resolve
root       791  0.0  0.1  25996  2436 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00 dhclient
syslog     994  0.0  0.1 263048  3748 ?        Ssl  Jan26   3:54 rsyslogd
root       998  0.0  0.1 169528  3516 ?        Ssl  Jan26   0:00 networkd-dispat
root      1000  0.0  0.1 286232  3348 ?        Ssl  Jan26   4:44 accounts-daemon
root      1001  0.0  0.1 637036  3032 ?        Ssl  Jan26   0:10 lxcfs
daemon    1002  0.0  0.0  28336  1860 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00 atd
message+  1010  0.0  0.1  50480  3160 ?        Ss   Jan26   6:50 dbus-daemon
root      1025  0.0  0.1  70512  3424 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:17 systemd-logind
root      1027  0.0  0.1  30032  2124 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:18 cron
root      1040  0.0  0.0  14672  1680 ttyS0    Ss+  Jan26   0:00 agetty
root      1045  0.0  0.1 288884  2796 ?        Ssl  Jan26   3:35 polkitd
root      1046  0.0  0.0  14896  1560 tty1     Ss+  Jan26   0:00 agetty
root      1048  0.1  0.5 1280276 10712 ?       Ssl  Jan26 104:20 containerd
root      1058  0.0  0.0  23064   212 ?        Ss   Jan26  56:57 qemu-ga
root      1063  0.0  0.1  72304  2540 ?        Ss   Jan26   6:05 sshd
root      3947  0.5  0.3 107988  7008 ?        Ss   18:49   0:00  \_ sshd
root      4065  0.0  0.1  38504  3616 ?        Rs   18:49   0:00  |   \_ ps
root      3979  0.0  0.3 108016  6916 ?        Ss   18:49   0:00  \_ sshd
sshd      3981  0.0  0.1  72304  2880 ?        S    18:49   0:00      \_ sshd
root      1066  0.0  0.2 185952  4280 ?        Ssl  Jan26   0:00 unattended-upgr
root      1100  0.0  1.1 1419756 23892 ?       Ssl  Jan26  14:16 dockerd
root      1280  0.0  0.0 1004936  968 ?        Sl   Jan26   0:12  \_ docker-proxy
root      1286  0.0  0.0 1004936 1272 ?        Sl   Jan26   0:11  \_ docker-proxy
root      1297  0.0  0.0 1152400 1192 ?        Sl   Jan26   0:12  \_ docker-proxy
root      1303  0.0  0.0 1078668 1204 ?        Sl   Jan26   0:11  \_ docker-proxy
root      1323  0.0  0.2 712452  4136 ?        Sl   Jan26  31:37 containerd-shim
root      1354  0.0  0.1   6832  2612 ?        Ss+  Jan26   0:00  \_ boot
root      2003  0.0  0.0   2400   512 ?        S+   Jan26   1:10      \_ runsvdir
root      2004  0.0  0.0   2248   400 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
root      2017  0.0  0.0 151124  1596 ?        Sl   Jan26   0:06          |   \_ rsyslogd
root      2005  0.0  0.0   2248   384 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
root      2015  0.0  0.1   6680  2172 ?        S    Jan26   0:24          |   \_ cron
root      2006  0.0  0.0   2248   416 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
ddiscou+  2012  0.0  0.1  15316  3584 ?        S    Jan26  45:11          |   \_ unicorn_launche
ddiscou+  2055  0.0 10.5 454612 210264 ?       Sl   Jan26  11:12          |       \_ ruby
ddiscou+  2246  0.5 14.5 926788 290744 ?       SNl  Jan26 360:44          |       |   \_ ruby
ddiscou+  2256  0.0 15.1 901636 301472 ?       Sl   Jan26  37:54          |       |   \_ ruby
ddiscou+  2264  0.0 14.5 832344 289952 ?       Sl   Jan26  14:48          |       |   \_ ruby
ddiscou+  3949  0.0  0.1  13820  2252 ?        S    18:49   0:00          |       \_ sleep
root      2007  0.0  0.0   2248   480 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
root      2014  0.0  0.0   2396   444 ?        S    Jan26   0:00          |   \_ svlogd
systemd+  2016  0.0  0.8 213228 16656 ?        S    Jan26   5:35          |   \_ postmaster
systemd+  2039  0.0  4.5 213452 89732 ?        Ss   Jan26   1:35          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2040  0.0  0.3 213228  7340 ?        Ss   Jan26   1:34          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2041  0.0  0.3 213228  6256 ?        Ss   Jan26  28:03          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2042  0.0  0.2 213912  4096 ?        Ss   Jan26   3:35          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2043  0.0  0.1  68296  3100 ?        Ss   Jan26   9:55          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2044  0.0  0.1 213784  3140 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:07          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2224  0.0  1.3 225228 26484 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:01          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  2343  0.0  1.9 219580 37872 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:06          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+ 23217  0.0  1.2 215120 24200 ?        Ss   Feb06   0:41          |       \_ postmaster
systemd+  3784  0.0  1.1 215500 22816 ?        Ss   18:47   0:00          |       \_ postmaster
root      2008  0.0  0.0   2248  1076 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
root      2010  0.0  0.3  53844  6600 ?        S    Jan26   0:00          |   \_ nginx
www-data 23129  0.0  0.4  56080  8940 ?        S    01:33   0:04          |       \_ nginx
www-data 23130  0.0  0.1  53844  2836 ?        S    01:33   0:00          |       \_ nginx
root      2009  0.0  0.0   2248   384 ?        Ss   Jan26   0:00          \_ runsv
root      2011  0.0  0.0   2396   324 ?        S    Jan26   0:06              \_ svlogd
message+  2013  0.3  0.4  69808  8208 ?        Sl   Jan26 250:32              \_ redis-server
root      3950  1.0  0.3  76524  7188 ?        Ss   18:49   0:00 systemd
root      3951  0.0  0.1 191444  2460 ?        S    18:49   0:00  \_ (sd-pam)