How do I configure Discourse behind an AWS or Google Cloud Proxy with SSL

Prior to implementing ipv6, our proxy server listened on 80/443 and it talked to Discourse listening on non port 80 on various machines.

Proxying on path is not going to work… not at all, not even following why you would do this, you would enter a world of regex pain.

That said this entire discussion is out of scope for the original howto, split off and moved to support.