Set up mail-receiver, but now site won't send any emails?

It’s certainly not exhaustive but there are some sending service recommendations in the install documentation along with some basic information about using them in Discourse: discourse/docs/INSTALL-email.md at main · discourse/discourse · GitHub

The following topic (linked at the bottom of that document) also has information about bounce handling for those and others:

I use Mailgun flex plan (entirely within free allowance) myself but I know there has been confusion around their pricing and potentially things have changed for new users since I joined. The last I saw (no idea if still true), it was possible to move to flex after the trial ended, it was just incredibly unclear.