The discussion revolves around threading issues in Apple Mail and iOS after switching from SendGrid to Amazon SES. adamengst notes that Amazon SES overrides the Message-ID header, which disrupts threading because Apple Mail relies on matching Message-ID and References headers. This is contrasted with Gmail, which uses subject lines for threading. codinghorror confirms SES’s invasive header handling, while peternlewis explains that using a personal mail server avoids the issue, maintaining proper threading. The problem also extends to topic splitting, where new topics remain incorrectly threaded with old ones, highlighting the unreliability of email threading in Apple Mail.
Good to know. And using your own email server is enabling the threads to be maintained in Mail?
We’ve also noticed that breaking some messages out into a new topic runs into the same problem in Mail—the new topic continues to be threaded with the old one. We’re not sure why that’s happening yet.