Send email to non registered user in a group

What is it you are trying to achieve exactly? It seems odd to me that you are allowing anonymous users start topics by emailing them into the category, and then expecting other members yo then reply. Shouldn’t these people be joining the community first and then posting to the forum?

Alternatively, you can create groups with invoices and slow them to receive email, and your staff can then reply to them. This is what we do.