Prevent this from happening during update?

I use 503 response (instead of 502 error) during maintenance mode like rebuilds (only when Discourse requires me to). My previous server was slow, so sometimes updates took longer and the site stayed too long during updates. So I got delisted. Now my new server is overkill, so I only have issues like this occasionally during update.

There are new updates every day, every hour so I update whenever I see new updates.