The following is something that I’ve observed through trial and error, but haven’t seen documentation for nor encountered a warning or error for.
On our site, which is hosted by Discourse (for which we’re very appreciative!), setting a Custom incoming email address for a category only seems to work if the email address is prefixed by “foo+{something}@discoursemail.com” (where ‘foo’ is the general slug for our site).
Specifically, I often set up a new category, set up what I consider to be an intuitive email address for it, send a test mail to that address, and never get a bounce (correction: I did eventually get one several hours later) nor see it show up in our site’s received or rejected email logs. Then I eventually remember my previous experiences, set the address to foo+<some name>, run another test and it immediately works.
If I’m not imagining it, this seems understandable as a means for Discourse to distinguish mails intended for one hosted site from another, but I wanted to check that I’m correct. Or, if I’m not, see whether there are other explanations for why my initial choices of email address seem to go to /dev/null.
For our (hosted) site, I didn’t realize that …@{OUR PREFIX}.discoursemail.com was an option and have only ever tried using …@discoursemail.com as the hostname because that’s what the default “accept incoming emails” address uses (and I’ve updated my original query above to try and clarify this since I left the hostname off in the original question). I’ll give that a try, thanks for the tip!
Though I understand that Discourse can’t verify email addresses for self-hosted instances of Discourse, would it be possible to have the hosted instances generate a warning or error if the email address was not of an expected format? (or an expected format when using a …discoursemail.com address?
I think you’ve confirmed my suspicion that this is an issue specific to hosted Discourse sites like ours. I don’t know what level of effort would be required to have such sites verify that the …discoursemail.com addresses entered in this field are valid, but such a feature would’ve saved me a fair amount of time and frustration over the past several years of setting up new mailing lists and aliases, wondering why they don’t work. I imagine it would help others as well.
Alternatively, even a little tool tip on that field for a hosted site indicating that a legal address must be slug+...@discoursemail.com or ...@slug.discoursemail.com would go a long way. Though I don’t know whether making that tip specific to hosted Discourse sites makes that approach unworkable.