Oh, just came here to post the js solution. I made a group called hidelikes and this js hides the who-liked for all group members for their own posts.
<script type="text/discourse-plugin" version="0.8">
$( document ).ready(function() {
let currentUser = api.getCurrentUser();
var groups = currentUser.groups;
var userID = currentUser.id;
const hidelikes = groups.some(g => g.name === 'hidelikes');
if (hidelikes) {
$('<style>').text('.boxed.onscreen-post[data-user-id="' + userID + '"] .who-liked{display: none;}').appendTo(document.head)
}
});
</script>
Obviously if you want to do it for all users just scrap the groups part