The real error seems to be Can’t verify CSRF token authenticity. The answer was in this thread: Can't Login to Discourse - CSRF Token Authenticity
I added the following to my apache2.conf file:
RequestHeader set X-Forwarded-Proto https
From the error log:
Started POST "/session" for {my.ip} at 2021-08-07 11:45:54 +0000
Processing by SessionController#create as */*
Parameters: {"login"=>"{me}", "password"=>"[FILTERED]", "second_factor_method"=>"1", "timezone"=>"America/Denver"}
Can't verify CSRF token authenticity.
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