Email not working (SSL_connect returned=1)

OK, since sending emails no longer works without SSL / TLS, can someone please help me reconfigure it?

From here:

  1. Try to open a connection to your smtp server via openssl:

(telnet, nc etc. are not installed inside the container.)

Fiddle with some different settings until you succeed with a connection.

openssl s_client -connect your.smtp.server:465

And this is the answer:

openssl s_client -connect smtps.aruba.it:465
CONNECTED(00000003)
depth=2 C = IT, L = Milan, O = Actalis S.p.A./03358520967, CN = Actalis Authentication Root CA
verify return:1
depth=1 C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Actalis S.p.A., CN = Actalis Organization Validated Server CA G3
verify return:1
depth=0 C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Aruba S.p.A., CN = *.aruba.it
verify return:1
---
Certificate chain
 0 s:C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Aruba S.p.A., CN = *.aruba.it
   i:C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Actalis S.p.A., CN = Actalis Organization Validated Server CA G3
 1 s:C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Actalis S.p.A., CN = Actalis Organization Validated Server CA G3
   i:C = IT, L = Milan, O = Actalis S.p.A./03358520967, CN = Actalis Authentication Root CA
---
Server certificate
-----BEGIN CERTIFICATE-----
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-----END CERTIFICATE-----
subject=C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Aruba S.p.A., CN = *.aruba.it

issuer=C = IT, ST = Bergamo, L = Ponte San Pietro, O = Actalis S.p.A., CN = Actalis Organization Validated Server CA G3

---
No client certificate CA names sent
Peer signing digest: SHA512
Peer signature type: RSA
Server Temp Key: ECDH, P-256, 256 bits
---
SSL handshake has read 4572 bytes and written 432 bytes
Verification: OK
---
New, TLSv1.2, Cipher is ECDHE-RSA-AES256-GCM-SHA384
Server public key is 2048 bit
Secure Renegotiation IS supported
Compression: NONE
Expansion: NONE
No ALPN negotiated
SSL-Session:
    Protocol  : TLSv1.2
    Cipher    : ECDHE-RSA-AES256-GCM-SHA384
    Session-ID: E79BF76633C1FF1930AB44B11DD45E5CE0CE4D3ECAA3B035C4239E3D576BADC0
    Session-ID-ctx:
    Master-Key: B2DFD5C791C36245D8B51F876F720F627F60F5AA1C085D4F16643D206406737059C6DD4CB51A508FFD872FE718822394
    PSK identity: None
    PSK identity hint: None
    SRP username: None
    TLS session ticket lifetime hint: 300 (seconds)
    TLS session ticket:
    0000 - d5 97 a0 c2 6a b1 51 3e-7c 9d fa b3 d2 99 0f 13   ....j.Q>|.......
    0010 - fc 39 61 86 c1 88 91 51-11 7b 55 42 e5 7c 1f 27   .9a....Q.{UB.|.'
    0020 - 39 3b 22 67 45 6c 22 53-7a 1a 4f f8 76 e9 ef 89   9;"gEl"Sz.O.v...
    0030 - 3c 11 df 3b 98 f3 0c 1e-44 f0 f9 af 27 71 f5 6f   <..;....D...'q.o
    0040 - ab 3e 78 b4 9d b3 e5 49-fb 20 80 2e a2 5b f8 4a   .>x....I. ...[.J
    0050 - 4f 4b fe 60 5a c2 cf ea-d0 81 6b bc 42 a3 ac 2a   OK.`Z.....k.B..*
    0060 - 4a 14 e5 61 a8 5e 94 c6-5c 27 09 81 e5 4d 93 b7   J..a.^..\'...M..
    0070 - 13 b2 e0 6d f2 db 08 c2-16 f5 b9 e3 52 6b 70 d0   ...m........Rkp.
    0080 - 25 44 b4 37 07 c6 83 c3-0b 41 c4 d6 99 45 03 f2   %D.7.....A...E..
    0090 - 5a 79 27 ea e2 52 96 62-bc bc 34 53 13 32 02 2b   Zy'..R.b..4S.2.+
    00a0 - 5a 46 1f 51 f4 82 12 36-2c 6d 4f 5b e6 07 94 7c   ZF.Q...6,mO[...|

    Start Time: 1655216339
    Timeout   : 7200 (sec)
    Verify return code: 0 (ok)
    Extended master secret: no
---
220 smtpdh01.ad.aruba.it Aruba Outgoing Smtp  ESMTP server ready
HELO mydomain.info
250 smtpdh01.ad.aruba.it hello [5.xxx.xxx.xxx], pleased to meet you

My app.yml

 DISCOURSE_SMTP_ADDRESS: smtps.aruba.it
  DISCOURSE_SMTP_PORT: 465
  DISCOURSE_SMTP_USER_NAME: myemail@domain.info
  DISCOURSE_SMTP_PASSWORD: "password"
  DISCOURSE_SMTP_ENABLE_START_TLS: false            # (optional, default true)
  DISCOURSE_SMTP_DOMAIN: domain.info              # (required by some providers)

Sending does not work…

./discourse-doctor

==================== MAIL TEST ====================
For a robust test, get an address from http://www.mail-tester.com/
Or just send a test message to yourself.
Email address for mail test? ('n' to skip) [myemail@domain.info]:
Sending mail to myemail@domain.info. . .
Testing sending to myemail@domain.info using smtps.aruba.it:465, username:myemail@domain.info with plain auth.
======================================== ERROR ========================================
                                    UNEXPECTED ERROR

Net::ReadTimeout

====================================== SOLUTION =======================================
This is not a common error. No recommended solution exists!

DISCOURSE_SMTP_ENABLE_START_TLS: it is the same, nothing changes.

After more than a month of trying how can I solve?
Is it possible that I alone cannot send emails?

Thanks