Thanks for the feedback @stephtara , I went ahead and moved this to a dedicated topic, it does not seem to fit into the https://meta.discourse.org/t/badges-and-general-chattiness-of-discourse/187971 topic.
It feels this is just general feedback to the Discourse team of:
Just cause nobody complains, does not mean you don’t have a problem
It is legitimate feedback but should be discussed in its own room.
Note that proactively as a company we reach out regularly to customers and even open source users for interviews. I think we do 1-2 a week at this point. Hunting for feedback is one way we gather signal.