I am sorry we are not living up to your expectations of how we spend our time. If you feel that you should no longer participate in this project based on your disappointment with how the project is being run, I understand.
Life is too short to be unhappy and you should choose to spend your time on things that make you happy. Sorry Discourse did not meet your goals. I hope you find a project that does meet your expectations. Good luck, and thanks for your contributions!