Manual approval by me but seamless to WordPress SSO user

[omarfilip]

If you manage memberships in WP, then you need this for no. 1:

Create a DiscourseConnect login link

Sites using DiscourseConnect sometimes want to include links on their DiscourseConnect provider site that will log users into Discourse and redirect them to a specific Discourse URL. This can be done by creating an anchor on the SSO provider site with an href property that points to /session/sso and has a return_path parameter set to the Discourse URL you want users to end up on. The link’s href property should be in this form: https://forum.example.com/session/sso?return_path=https://forum.e…

Valid users from WP will be automatically created in Discourse.

For no. 2 you can customize text that’s shown to suspended users and include a message and link where they should go to renew. They would see something like this, but with your customized message.