I improved this per:
https://github.com/discourse/discourse/commit/54da4610249b01fa7757b9242b7a0e58d00f9a32
I think the copy is good here and there is a lot less thinking needed.
@codinghorror feel free to improve on copy.
I like that there is just one button now to pick, worst case if you are bad in the reading department, you can not do any damage.