Since i had to update the forum i had a go on the os update as per @sam instructions
launched the upgrade and got distracted by work.
when i came back -I was asked to reply to a question about overwriting some files but the ssh had timed out.
the apt-get dist-upgrade wasn’t woking anymore so i launched a reboot…
after a power off and back on from digital ocean
and connecting to the console i got a kernel panic…
Before you ask no i don’t have fresh backups!
(i failed setting up amazon aws backup on first try and never had time to fix it!!!)
last resort is a july backup…
but i hope ther’s a way to fix it!
TY in advance for all your help!
ps if it’s not the right forum category pls move the thread accordingly!