If you don’t me, I’m the creator of a social media app and website powered by the incredible Discourse platform. I abandoned the startup when I was downright completely hopeless - both on finding success on my app as well as my life/mental health. I deleted my website, my server, and my apps off iOS and Android. I removed most mentions of me and the app on the web, too. All the excruciatingly hard work I poured in for ~12 hours a day felt wasted and forgotten. I felt like a complete failure.
I was an avid Discourse user and enthusiast, trying to engage as much as I could and finding ways we can implement features and QoL changes to improve this already polished platform. It’s been over a year since I’ve been gone and the other day I got an email from a former user of my app asking me what had happened to it all. It was a very eye-opening moment and I was in a flurry of nostalgia. I think it may have helped resurrect my passion for this again.
I believe I downloaded a backup of the app in which I will use as a basis for the next site I may make. I just hope it isn’t too late.
Thank you for reading, I honestly don’t know where this fits on this forum but man it felt great coming off my chest. Be safe!
Glad to hear that things are improving and thanks for having the courage to share. It’s a crazy world out there at the moment and we gotta look after each other!
Oh @nexo I noticed your disappearance and so sorry you’ve been through some troubles! (I tried to message you after fixing a TLP bug you had raised. :). )
“Failure” is an opportunity to learn. Discourse sites take years to mature and there is no guarantee of success.
I wish you the best with your next project or the resurrection of your existing one which I’m sure will benefit from your experience! Keep persevering, pushing past obstacles and experimenting!
If you didn’t learn anything from 12 hours/day, then maybe it was wasted. I have a feeling that you did learn a lot from those hours you invested. It wasn’t a waste, it just didn’t turn out the way you hoped it would. So go a slightly different route. One will lead to the finish line.
Eu era um grande fã do Quemuse quando ainda existia. Serviu como motivação para eu conceber minha própria rede social baseada no Discourse.
Além desta comunidade, não consegui encontrar nenhuma outra forma de entrar em contato com você. Há um tempo, você excluiu toda a sua presença nas redes sociais (excluindo o LinkedIn, mas hesitei em contatá-lo por lá). Estou extremamente interessado em compartilhar minhas ideias com você, mas não sei seu endereço de e-mail. Você tem um para o qual eu possa responder?
Esses posts muito perspicazes foram infelizmente após o período de Quemuse. Eu apenas criaria um tópico sobre algo que me ajudasse com a visão do meu site e, geralmente, isso acendia algumas ideias.
