Hey Jarjar please be patient. You are using open source software and posting in a community support forum. Nate and Jakke are giving you good advice, for free!
I deleted that last post of yours because it did not contribute anything to the conversation and will not really make anyone feel motivated to help you.
Discourse Chat is designed to be used by members who are actively signing in. If you want to lure people back to your site who have not logged in for a while, the appropriate place for that is in an announcements category you have set up so everyone is watching it by default.
More specifically, from the doc Nate links to: