After commenting with a whisper to a staff member on our community, I got this email from the original poster:
Hidden reply?
Hey,
The forum say that my help post from yesterday has two replies (one from you)
Did you reply to this? I can’t see what you posted!
The whisper also appears in the comment count along with the whisper’s avatar.
Is there a way to disable this? This kinda goes against the whole purpose of whispering.