Hi @HAWK, sorry for being confusing
The site was built on Buddypress/Wordpress but expainding now up to 25000 users it is very slow.
So i put my eyes on to the Discourse as a very good platform, but since there is no good profile page on discourse i was thinking doing a mix and want 1 message system so use the Discourse message system in on Wordpress buddypress discourse, if tha tis possible