Integrate discourse messages/chat on word/buddypress

Hi,
So if someone could help me with making this work i would move to discourse in an instant.

So at the moment the site has users profile like on a dating/comunitysite with 2-3 images on

then there is uploading of videos and images on there profile that other can see and a main gallery for the site

and then there is a buy and streaming of videos includinded in a 3 tired meberships

and then buddypress messages and flyzoo live chat

and we are using discourse as the forum on the site and for personals.

Of course there are some posts as well with news articles.

All this can not be moved to discourse i think so i am trying to get this to work with each other, and i would apriciate all the suggesten and help i can get.

As wordpress struggles to do what i have now.

thanks

theo