So here is what im running into more-less.
I have 2 hardware servers. 1 runs unraid and the second unit is for running esxi VM’s
The unraid unit us running nginx reverse proxy manager. I have an Ubuntu 18.04 VM on the esxi machine. when going through the install it tells me im getting through on port 80 but not 443. Is anyone running this type of setup?
In the reverse proxy i have my domain set up with ssl and set on port 80. I just dont understand enough (using this as a learning experience) to figure out how to make the 2 work together and get discourse installed and working.
UPDATE: I managed to solve. the link that got me in the right direction is here.