I suspect you might be right. I set up email through name.com; that’s who is hosting the DNS. I don’t see anything strange there, but I’m not sure what to look for.
I don’t think name.com offers an email server for bulk sending. But this issue is most certainly related to your mail server either refusing the mails or your host server having wrong email credentials (which is unlikely if the same credentials worked before.)
I think I must have screwed it up when I made some configuration changes at the end of September which I didn’t precisely log . Currently can’t telnet to the server.
I rebuilt with ./discourse-setup which didn’t help, and I’m just not seeing anything odd on the cPanel or Name.com side. I wonder if I screwed up the DKIM/SPF incantation. I’m going to look there next.